Addictions

Yesterday, during LifeGroups we discussed the topic of addictions. Addictions can be addicting because they provide an escape for us. Escape from stress, from our problems, from our life. There are many kinds of addictions. Some are obvious, drinking, drugs, certain relationships that aren't good for us. Others, are not so obvious but can also be an addiction. Over-eating, social media, constantly checking our phone, or shopping can all be a way of escape for us...a continuous habit for us.

How do you 'escape' your issues? Do you try to forget your problems with a 'quick fix' like a drink, only to pick up the problem right where you left it?

Instead of turning to that short term solution, turn to God. Maybe you start by downloading the bible app on your phone and doing a devotional. Or you begin with listening to some relaxing worship music like Bethel or Elevation worship. Or you simply go somewhere to be alone, close your eyes, and pray to God.

Some of you may blame God for the way your life turned out. Maybe things haven't gone your way in life or things didn't turn out the way you planned. And if that is so, then God should be the last person you want to be mad at! Out of anyone, He is the one that can turn things around for you!! It may not be easy and it may not change over night...but start small and work your way up to true change. Start reading the bible for 5 minutes, then go to 10, then 15, and so on. Also, try looking up some great worship music on youtube or on Apple Music.


Little by little, your addictions will turn from the bad habits and you will be creating the good habits of spending time in the presence of God, spending time in His word, and becoming 'addicted' to the right things!

Scripture Reference: John 8:36
Worship Song Suggestion: "You Know Me" by Bethel

"Not a Flashy Entrance"

I want to take a second to brag on my husband. Yesterday his sermon was entitled, "Not a Flashy Entrance" and it truly ministered to me. He shared the Christmas story & how Jesus, our savior, arrived on a donkey.  He didn't have bright lights, security guards, fireworks, chariots, the finest linens.....no flashy entrance to announce, "I'm here".

But here was a child of a King, born unto this world to save all of humanity from sin.  He had every right to arrive in a "look at me, I'm here to save the world" type of entrance. But He arrived on a donkey, in a manager, wrapped in cloth. He came into this world humbly.

You see, although God wants us to be blessed, He also reminds us that there is so much more than the things of this world.

What a great reminder that Jesus was born unto this world with so little, to give us all so much. That it wasn't the riches of the world that made Him grand, it was the riches of His heart. 

Let us not lose sight in this holiday season of the riches, or the grand gifts. But, let us remember that on this day, a savior was born and it is the season to share the love, the warmth, and the appreciation for one another. Take the time to spend with your loved ones and your family this season, but most importantly, take the time to spend with your savior. It is easy to get caught up in the family drama or the gifts or even in exhausting yourself in travel as you try to be at every get together or every relatives house. Don't get distracted with the flashy-ness of Christmas. But take the time to bow your head in Thanksgiving and be grateful for the greatest gift of all. Jesus.

Think about it, He had every right to have a grand entrance. But, He didn't. Not His name in lights, not His flashy lifestyle, not His possessions...but His grace, His mercy, & His sacrifice. From our family to yours, we wish you a Merry Christmas!!

Scripture Ref: Luke 2

 ~Lady Shaleen Roman

Brave

Do you know that "Fear Not" is written 365 times in the bible? Sounds to me like that is a scripture a day to remind you not to be afraid no matter what the day holds.

Part of those words, "Fear Not" in the bible are instances where an angel of the Lord would come down and before they would say anything, they would first say, "Fear Not". They would say it first because fear is a crippling feeling. Fear will paralyze you. Paralyze you to step into your destiny, paralyze you to run towards the call God has on your life...it will completely freeze you. So they would say it first because if that person would choose not to fear, then they could continue on to do whatever the angel came down to tell them. Otherwise, if they were in fear they couldn't move.

Think about it. When you are in fear you cannot move forward. If you cannot move forward, you are stagnant.

But when you begin to understand the greatness of our God. The vastness of His love for you. The protection He provides for you...You will begin to see that you have no reason  to fear. You see, it's all in His hands. Everything is in His timing. Whether you feel like it or not, whether you realize it or not...God is always with you. He never leaves you nor forsakes you.

Deuteronomy 31:6 "Be strong & courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you."

So if he never leaves us nor forsakes us, then what do we have to be afraid of?

Now this doesn't mean we don't have the opportunity to feel fear. It just means that you shouldn't take the bait. Don't fear, for God is with you! When you are operating in fear, you are showing that you don't have faith in God. You cannot have fear & faith inside of you. It's either one or the other.

You see, fear is the opposite of faith. If you fear, you aren't trusting in God, therefore you aren't in faith. You are focusing on the problem instead of focusing on the God that created you and is bigger than anything you may face. You are putting that situation above God. You are saying, "God can't solve this, He can't help me. I'm scared. I don't know what to do." But when you choose faith, you are allowing God to work on your behalf. You are allowing Him to work things out for you. (Romans 8:28).

So tonight, I say, "Fear Not". God is with you. He is always with you. It doesn't matter whether you feel it or not. He is...He always is. Don't look at the situation, don't look at your circumstance. But look at the God that says, "Be strong & courageous!" (Joshua 1:7). He will make you brave, He will fight your battles for you. All you have to do is let Him. Trust Him. Obey Him. Get to know Him. Let Him make you brave :)

Song accompanying this blog:

1)  Bethel Music & Amanda Cook "You Make Me Brave". You make me brave

2) Moriah Peters "Brave" Brave

~Lady Shaleen Roman